Dear Birthmom
Dear Birthmom
Dear Expectant Mother,
We can’t imagine the weight of your decision while trying to find the best home for your child, and we sincerely thank you for considering us. Growing our family and raising a child is a dream of ours, and it would not be possible without your courage and trust.
We promise to provide the most loving and supportive environment. We’ll ensure your child has every opportunity to be whoever they want to be and to experience and explore the world as much as possible. We will make sure they grow up knowing the sacrifice you made to give them the best possible future and the gift you gave us.
We’re grateful you’ve taken the time to read our profile and to get to know us a little. Please do not hesitate to reach out and learn more about us if you’d like. We want to make this as comfortable a decision as possible for you. Thank you for considering us!
We can’t imagine the weight of your decision while trying to find the best home for your child, and we sincerely thank you for considering us. Growing our family and raising a child is a dream of ours, and it would not be possible without your courage and trust.
We promise to provide the most loving and supportive environment. We’ll ensure your child has every opportunity to be whoever they want to be and to experience and explore the world as much as possible. We will make sure they grow up knowing the sacrifice you made to give them the best possible future and the gift you gave us.
We’re grateful you’ve taken the time to read our profile and to get to know us a little. Please do not hesitate to reach out and learn more about us if you’d like. We want to make this as comfortable a decision as possible for you. Thank you for considering us!
Our Story
Hayden is from Nebraska, and Adam was born and raised in a Chicago suburb very near where we live now. We met in vet school and have been together for six years; we were married in 2022. We’re both veterinarians and love what we do. Adam’s career has brought him to work in his family’s practice, reinforcing his close-knit family ties in the personal and professional senses. Hayden is an avid chef and baker who enjoys making food from all cuisines. He loves to cook for our family and friends. Adam prefers to be the taste-tester. Hayden likes running with our dog, Loki, while Adam likes going to the gym or riding his bike. Together, we often take advantage of the zoos, theaters, museums, and diverse restaurants in Chicago and its suburbs. But most nights, we enjoy a quiet evening at home with one of our favorite TV series or a movie.
Our Extended Family
We are lucky to live very near much of Adam’s family, and we get together for meals, minigolf, or a movie at least once a week. His parents, younger brother, and extended family all live three to 15 minutes away from us. We often play golf and card games with Adam’s aunts, uncles, and cousins. Adam’s older brother, sister-in-law, and two nieces live just a couple hours away, so we get to see them frequently as well.
Hayden has an aunt, uncle, and two young cousins in Chicagoland, but the majority of his family lives in Nebraska. We are still fortunate to visit with Hayden’s extended family for holidays and our annual family reunion at a rental lake house in Iowa. Our extensive and very supportive family network is beyond thrilled at the prospect of welcoming a new baby!
Hayden has an aunt, uncle, and two young cousins in Chicagoland, but the majority of his family lives in Nebraska. We are still fortunate to visit with Hayden’s extended family for holidays and our annual family reunion at a rental lake house in Iowa. Our extensive and very supportive family network is beyond thrilled at the prospect of welcoming a new baby!
Our Home
We live in a safe and very family-oriented neighborhood with good schools and multiple parks within easy walking distance. We are about 45 minutes away from Chicago, which gives us the quiet living we enjoy while still allowing for easy trips to the city for the culture and events. Loki, our lovable border collie mix, enjoys the fenced-in yard. His favorite activity is chasing our cat, Nim, around our four-bedroom, spacious but warm home.
Our Journey to Adoption
We always planned on adoption since we both wanted kids and biological children were not an option. What really sealed the deal and pushed us to get started with this process was getting to spend time with Adam’s nieces. They are now almost one and four years old. Watching them grow and their little personalities develop has strengthened our desire for kids of our own.
Fun Facts
About Hayden
Education
Doctor of Veterinary Medicine
Favorite Hobby
Cooking/baking
Favorite Sport
Golf
Favorite Music Group
Zac Brown Band
Favorite TV Show
The Office
Favorite Subject in School
Biology
Favorite Tradition
Lake house reunion
About Adam
Education
Doctor of Veterinary Medicine
Favorite Hobby
Biking, hiking
Favorite Sport
Beach volleyball
Favorite Music Group
Bruno Mars
Favorite TV Show
Parks and Recreation
Favorite Subject in School
Biology
Favorite Tradition
Birthdays at Benihana