Dear Expectant Mother,

We don’t think we can muster the strength to imagine the difficulty of the decision you are considering. Instead, we will say that what you’re considering is one of the bravest and kindest acts one woman can do. We have tried desperately to have children and have been met with loss after loss. What you’re doing is giving hope to us when there was no hope. You’re giving us a chance when we had no chance. All we can say is that the choice you’re considering is nothing short of heroic in our eyes.

If you choose to consider us, our promise to you is that we will never take for granted the sacrifice you have made. We will bring this child into our home and care for them with every ounce of love we have in our hearts. Whatever they choose to do and whomever they choose to be in their lives, we will do everything in our power to ensure they have every opportunity to be the very best version of themselves possible. They will always be a part of our family. They will always feel loved. They will always be protected. Most importantly, no matter what obstacles are thrown their way, we’re going to show them how to overcome them. Thank you for taking the time to consider us.

Jay and Tina