Dear Birthmom

We won’t pretend to fully understand what you are walking through or all that you may be feeling. We can only imagine how complex and emotional this season must be. We want you to know that we see your courage. The love and strength it takes to consider adoption is extraordinary, and we are deeply grateful that you would take the time to learn about our family.

We believe God gently prepares hearts and families in ways we cannot always see, and we trust that He is present in both of our stories. If given the opportunity, we would come alongside you with compassion, respect, and unwavering support. We would honor your story and always speak of you with gratitude.

Our hearts are full when we think about welcoming a child into our family. Your baby would be cherished, nurtured, and delighted in for exactly who he or she is. Our home is filled with laughter, learning, adventure, and faith — a place where children are known, celebrated, and encouraged to grow into who they are meant to be.

If you choose our family, it would be one of the greatest honors of our lives. We cannot promise perfection, but we can promise unconditional love, a stable and joyful home, and a commitment to raise your child with grace and integrity.

Most importantly, please know this: you are seen, valued, and deeply loved.

Our Story

One of the things Allison admires most about Andy is his steady perseverance. No matter the challenge, he moves forward with faith, humility, and determination. He is always striving to grow as a husband and father. He is patient, present, and intentional with each of our children. He has a special tenderness for our middle child, who sometimes needs extra support, meeting those moments with compassion and creativity. Our children feel safe and deeply loved because of him.

Andy admires Allison’s natural gift for nurturing. She is the heart of our home, creating an environment that feels steady, joyful, and secure. She doesn’t just care for our children — she truly knows them and delights in who they are. She is intentional about building a life where they feel supported and surrounded by community. The happiness and confidence in our children are a reflection of her strength and unwavering love.

 Our Extended Family

Allison has three siblings, all married, and nine nephews and one niece. Each year everyone gathers for a Fourth of July reunion at the family lake house — a tradition eagerly anticipated all year long. The week is filled with fireworks from the boat, cliff jumping, waverunners, homemade ice cream, grilling, and trips into town for go-karts and frozen custard. It’s a joyful week that reflects how connected and supportive our family truly is.

Andy has two siblings and is very close with his family. His niece (17) and nephew (6), both adopted, are deeply loved and celebrated. His parents enjoy traveling to family events, and time together often includes football, barbecues, board games, and laughter with the grandkids.

Our faith is the center of our home, guiding how we love and care for one another. Our marriage provides the foundation that allows our family to flourish.

Amaya (10) loves reading, soccer, basketball, running, and golf. She even climbed Mt. Fuji twice last summer. She is a nurturing big sister who loves reading to her brothers and helping make dinner. Axel (7) is our fighter — resilient, affectionate, and rarely without his books or Yoto player. Ace (4) has a huge personality, makes friends everywhere, loves Legos and superheroes, and firmly believes he will marry Elsa one day.

 Our Home

We currently live in Okinawa, Japan, and it has been a once-in-a-lifetime adventure for our family. We are learning about new cultures, and our children are excited to practice the Japanese they pick up each day. Okinawa offers beautiful beaches, parks, cultural festivals, and even a world-famous aquarium. Living here has brought us closer together and allowed us to explore parts of Asia and Oceania as a family. No matter where we live, our priority is creating a stable, consistent home filled with love and strong family connections.

Before moving overseas, we lived in Virginia, where we still have a home on four peaceful acres. We also cherish time at our lake house in Missouri, where generations gather and lifelong memories are made.

 Our Journey to Adoption

Adoption has long been part of our story. When Allison was young, she watched her sister lovingly place her son for adoption — an experience that deeply shaped her heart. In her twenties, she served at an orphanage in Haiti, and later lived with a family walking through their own adoption journey, witnessing its beauty firsthand.

Adoption became deeply personal for Andy when his sister and brother-in-law adopted their son over six years ago. Watching his nephew’s birth mother choose life and make an adoption plan moved us profoundly. The courage of these women left a lasting imprint on us. In January 2023, we felt clearly led to begin our own adoption journey.

 Fun Facts

About Allison

Education
Master’s in Youth/Family Ministry, Master’s in Physician Assistant
Favorite Hobby
Traveling, building things
Favorite Sport
All water sports
Favorite Music Group
Bethel
Favorite TV Show
Friday Night Lights
Favorite Tradition
Matching Christmas PJs

About Andy

Education
Master’s in Leadership and Ethics, Master’s in Theology
Favorite Hobby
Home improvement
Favorite Sport
Golf
Favorite Music Group
Hillsong
Favorite TV Show
24
Favorite Tradition
Christmas Eve church, cookies, watch The Star

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