Dear Birthmom
Dear Birthmom
Dear Expectant Mother,
Let us start by saying that while we cannot imagine ALL that you are going through, we have the deepest respect and gratitude toward you, both as a mother and a human being. You have shown the deepest love, courage, and kindness by making the decision
to bring this child into this world. Your child will always carry you in their heart and their soul and will always know they were born because of the ultimate act of love of their mother! We want you to know that you are brave, you are kind, and you are loved!
We will forever be grateful, blessed, and honored if we are chosen to be adoptive parents, and our dreams of sharing our love and our lives with another child will come true! The universe decided we can give birth to only one child, but we know in our hearts our adopted child will be born from our hearts.
We want you to know we will do everything we can to make sure the child feels loved, safe, nurtured, and empowered in our care. We will try our best to make sure the child feels appreciated for who they are and that they always feel heard and seen and know they matter in this world. We will make sure that we as parents let them know they always have a home they can come back to, whether it is in difficult times as they navigate life or it is for life's celebrations.
Let us start by saying that while we cannot imagine ALL that you are going through, we have the deepest respect and gratitude toward you, both as a mother and a human being. You have shown the deepest love, courage, and kindness by making the decision
to bring this child into this world. Your child will always carry you in their heart and their soul and will always know they were born because of the ultimate act of love of their mother! We want you to know that you are brave, you are kind, and you are loved!
We will forever be grateful, blessed, and honored if we are chosen to be adoptive parents, and our dreams of sharing our love and our lives with another child will come true! The universe decided we can give birth to only one child, but we know in our hearts our adopted child will be born from our hearts.
We want you to know we will do everything we can to make sure the child feels loved, safe, nurtured, and empowered in our care. We will try our best to make sure the child feels appreciated for who they are and that they always feel heard and seen and know they matter in this world. We will make sure that we as parents let them know they always have a home they can come back to, whether it is in difficult times as they navigate life or it is for life's celebrations.
Our Story
Kindness and Love are the foundations of our family. Dedication and hard work were the values our parents exemplified, and they raised us with these core beliefs. We are both engineers, and we strive for excellence in everything we do. We believe in giving our best every day. We believe kindness comes first, there is nothing that we cannot achieve if we work hard, and that perseverance and patience will take us a long way in every aspect of life. We support each other and everyone around us on their personal, professional and spiritual journeys. We believe kids have unlimited potential and we learn more from them than they learn from us. We believe in leading by example so we constantly strive to become the best versions of ourselves and show grace and love to ourselves when we make mistakes. We believe our failures teach us more than our successes. We believe all humans are spiritual beings, and we are all here to support each other on our journeys home.
Our Extended Family
Family is everything for both of us. We both have siblings and have very close relationships with them as well as their families. Extended family visits are regular and often; these keep us grounded and connected. Family, whether in the same country
or abroad, always reminds us of our roots and brings that sense of belonging. Our son is truly raised by a village with a lot of engagement from his grandparents (both sides) and uncles and aunts.
Our friends are our family too. They are the family away from our families. We make sure we get together with our siblings and their families as often as we can and spend time as a bigger family. Going to museums, pools, beaches, road trips, or hiking are the usual favorites. Kids spend summers together relaxing, watching movies, and playing video games when it's hot outside, and it's time for the pool, park, and beach as the days get cooler. We also ensure that our child gets to meet and interact with not just his immediate cousins but also the extended family back in India.
or abroad, always reminds us of our roots and brings that sense of belonging. Our son is truly raised by a village with a lot of engagement from his grandparents (both sides) and uncles and aunts.
Our friends are our family too. They are the family away from our families. We make sure we get together with our siblings and their families as often as we can and spend time as a bigger family. Going to museums, pools, beaches, road trips, or hiking are the usual favorites. Kids spend summers together relaxing, watching movies, and playing video games when it's hot outside, and it's time for the pool, park, and beach as the days get cooler. We also ensure that our child gets to meet and interact with not just his immediate cousins but also the extended family back in India.
Our Home
Our home is our oasis. We take pride in our humble abode, and we put in a lot of love and care in making it unique and a true reflection of our personalities. By the grace of the universe and all the hard work we have put into building our education, careers, and lives, we live in a good neighborhood. We chose this neighborhood because of the school rankings and the community. The schools are among the top ranked in the city. We live a block away from our community amenities, which means a lot of summer fun! We have a dog who is the gentlest and most loving creature and loves her walks in the neighborhood. This year we are having some good success with our veggie garden, which makes summer even more enjoyable. Summer means more time outdoors, firepits, outdoor picnics, popsicles, watermelons, ice cream, and more time in nature!
Our Journey to Adoption
Being parents has been the best part of our lives. We both have siblings and have great relationships with them. They are our support systems. We would love to create the same sense of belonging and community for our kids as a legacy. We had our first child biologically and always wanted more kids. But the universe had its own plans, and we could not conceive naturally again. We decided to share our love with kids who are already on their way in this world. We did some research and came across Angel Adoption. Their philosophy of empathy and support for the expectant mothers and seeing adoption as a journey of love resonated with us, and here we are….
Fun Facts
About Vaishali
Education
Master of Science
Favorite Hobby
Pottery, painting, DIY, furniture restoration, home decor
Favorite Sport
Tennis
Favorite Music Group
Micheal Buble, Imagine Dragons, Maroon 5
Favorite TV Show
Medical dramas
Favorite Subject in School
Biology, English
Favorite Tradition
Putting up a Christmas tree with family
About Rahul
Education
Master of Science
Favorite Hobby
Bike riding, gardening, trying new pizza and sandwich recipes
Favorite Sport
Cricket, football, Tennis
Favorite Music Group
Coldplay, AR Rehman
Favorite TV Show
Everybody Loves Raymond
Favorite Subject in School
Arts
Favorite Tradition
Celebrating all festivals with family, such as Diwali