When we think of you, the words that come to mind are strength and courage. The decision you are making, as heart-wrenching as it is, proves that both of these are true about you. What a selfless act you have chosen. We are aware that you could have taken other paths, and there are no words to express the magnitude of gratefulness we have that adoption is the path you chose. We are so thankful you are thinking of trusting us with this special and difficult part of your life.

We promise to share about your bravery and love and to always honor you when questions arise about you down the road. We know there may be a million reasons why you’re making this decision, but we also want you to know you are offering us the most precious gift we could ever have. We have not been able to have children biologically, and we fully believe that through you, our prayers for a family are being answered. Please never forget that your grief and hardship are not without purpose. You would be a part of our story now, the part where our grief is turned into joy. We pray that your grief will also be turned into joy whenever you think of your baby. We hope you are filled with inexplicable peace as you step forward in courage and faith. We would be forever thankful for you.