During this time of uncertainty, I wish for you to know that you are strong and brave. Knowing that you are spending so much time and effort deciding what is best for your child shows that you are putting a lot of thought and love into such a big decision.

I hope your child gets to see the world and all the wonderful things it holds. If you choose me, I want them to see that people are different, not wrong or bad, and those differences should be celebrated. I believe caring for wildlife and the environment should be a daily goal to help make a difference, no matter how small. If I am lucky enough to raise your child, I plan to love them for who they are and will be, not what I think they should be. Laughter, exploring, curiosity, questioning, and openness will be encouraged and modeled. Skills like being thoughtful, having manners, and being a good friend will be held in the utmost importance in our home.

You are a part of your child’s journey and will always be spoken of and remembered for your love, bravery, and strength. Thank you for taking the time to read my letter, and I wish you nothing but peace in the decision you are about to make.