Dear Birthmom

Dear Expectant Mother,

Thank you for taking the time to read this and consider us. We can’t begin to imagine everything you may be feeling right now, but we do know that this is an incredibly personal and emotional decision. It truly means so much to us that you would even think of us during such an important moment in your life.

The love, strength, and courage it takes to consider adoption is something we deeply respect and admire. Whatever you’re feeling right now is completely valid, and we are holding space for you in our hearts.

Family means everything to us, and we’re lucky to be surrounded by people from many different backgrounds and walks of life. It’s important to us that a child grows up feeling proud of who they are and connected to their story. We would always honor where your child comes from and support them in understanding their identity with love and openness.

If we’re fortunate enough to be chosen, your child would be welcomed into our lives and we would do our very best to give them a life where they feel loved, safe, supported, and encouraged to become exactly who they’re meant to be. We promise to show up for them every single day with patience, kindness, and care.

No matter what path you choose, we are wishing you peace, strength, and support. Thank you again for letting us be a small part of your journey—it truly means more to us than words can express.

With warmth and gratitude,
Preethi & Jim

Our Story

Jim has built a life driven by passion and purpose. He founded his own flight school and is dedicated to guiding students from their first lesson to becoming confident, independent pilots. His love of teaching extends beyond aviation—he is also a Tae Kwon Do black belt who enjoys helping children develop self-defense skills. At home, he brings people together, often hosting family and friends for relaxed evenings filled with good food and conversation.

I’ve been fortunate to have a fulfilling career in technology, but outside of work I enjoy activities that challenge both body and mind. Playing the cello is a true passion, and I also stay active through workouts and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, which has become an important part of my routine. For both of us, self-defense is more than a skill—it’s a mindset that builds confidence and resilience.

Together, we enjoy traveling and trying new experiences, but despite all the places we’ve been, our greatest joy comes from those quiet moments at home, relaxing with our dogs and appreciating the life we’ve created together.

 Our Extended Family

Jim’s family has deep roots in the area where we currently live. His brother and mom both live close, and we see them regularly. His sister lives a couple of hours away but visits often, so we still see her frequently. Jim also has a niece who was adopted from China at the age of 11, and we’ve loved watching her grow into a wonderful young woman who is now preparing to get married.

My family lives a bit farther away, with my two sisters residing outside of Illinois. Even so, we stay close. I share a strong bond with my niece and nephew and have spent many summers babysitting them when they were growing up. It’s been special to see the next generation, with one of them having a child who has quickly become the center of our family’s love.

Family is very important to us, and we extend that same value into our friendships. Jim and I believe in building lifelong connections, and we are fortunate to have friends from diverse backgrounds, cultures, and walks of life. Our dinner table often feels like a small celebration of the world—full of different stories and perspectives which we greatly enjoy.

 Our Home

Our home sits in a quiet lakeside neighborhood that feels both peaceful and full of life. The backyard opens to the water, and in the summer, swimming and boating in the lake becomes part of everyday living. It’s a setting where a child can grow up surrounded by nature and a sense of freedom.

The community makes it even more special.The nearby schools provide a nurturing environment, encouraging curiosity and confidence in every child. It’s a place where kids can safely play, friendships come easily, and neighbors genuinely look out for one another.

Life here is filled with simple, meaningful moments on the lake and dinners on the patio with friends and family. It’s a warm, welcoming environment where a child can feel supported, and free to grow.

 Our Journey to Adoption

Jim and I have shared many unforgettable adventures. One of the most thrilling was a trip to South Africa, where an elephant charged our Jeep—an intense moment that quickly turned into a lifelong story. In the Maldives, we experienced the magic of swimming with dolphins and diving among stingrays and sharks. In India, we stood in awe before the Taj Mahal, captivated by its beauty and history.

In Egypt, exploring the pyramids gave us a deep appreciation for ancient ingenuity. Yet, some of our favorite moments are closer to home in Moab, Utah, where we drive our Jeeps across rugged red rock landscapes. There’s something grounding about that place, that reminds us that adventure doesn’t always mean going far—it just means going together.

 Fun Facts

About Preethi

Education
Masters in Computer Science
Favorite Hobby
Flying Planes, Playing Cello, learning Spanish
Favorite Sport
Brazilian Jiu Jitsu
Favorite Music Group
The Two Cellos and Pitbull
Favorite TV Show
Everybody Loves Raymond
Favorite Subject in School
Chemistry and Astronomy
Favorite Tradition
Gathering the whole family together around our dinner table for Christmas.

About Jim

Education
Bachelor’s in Aviation Management, Associate Degree in Aviation Flight
Favorite Hobby
Boating, learning Spanish, Golfing, Jeep Off-roading
Favorite Sport
Tae Kwon Do
Favorite Music Group
Teddy Swims
Favorite TV Show
Seinfeld
Favorite Subject in School
Aircraft Mechanics
Favorite Tradition
Hosting all our friends and family at our annual July 4th gathering for an evening of live music and fireworks.

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