Dear Birthmom
Dear Birthmom
Dear Expectant Mother,
We deeply admire the incredible love and selflessness it takes to create an adoption plan and we wish you strength as you make the best decision for you and your child.
If you choose us, your baby will always be taken care of and loved unconditionally. We will do everything in our power to make sure they are healthy, well-educated, and above all happy. We will read them lots of books and play pretend and go to the beach and make homemade pizzas. They will have the chance to explore the world with us. They’ll be loved and supported by the village of people who love and support us.
We hope to create an environment where your child always feels accepted, unafraid, and encouraged to pursue their dreams. If you choose us, we will make sure that you and your story are always an important part of your child’s story. We will offer your child support and guidance as they seek to understand where they come from and grow into who they are.
Thank you for considering our profile, and we hope that you find peace and comfort in the days ahead.
Sincerely,
Sarah and Gabe
We deeply admire the incredible love and selflessness it takes to create an adoption plan and we wish you strength as you make the best decision for you and your child.
If you choose us, your baby will always be taken care of and loved unconditionally. We will do everything in our power to make sure they are healthy, well-educated, and above all happy. We will read them lots of books and play pretend and go to the beach and make homemade pizzas. They will have the chance to explore the world with us. They’ll be loved and supported by the village of people who love and support us.
We hope to create an environment where your child always feels accepted, unafraid, and encouraged to pursue their dreams. If you choose us, we will make sure that you and your story are always an important part of your child’s story. We will offer your child support and guidance as they seek to understand where they come from and grow into who they are.
Thank you for considering our profile, and we hope that you find peace and comfort in the days ahead.
Sincerely,
Sarah and Gabe
Our Story
We first met while volunteering at a haunted house fundraiser for a local youth center when we were teenagers. At the time, we could only see each other once a week. (We didn’t have cars, and Gabe didn't even have a phone that could text!) We got to grow up together, but we also had space to grow as independent people.
Getting married was a decision we made as a couple, and we wanted to show that to everyone. So we walked down the aisle, side by side, arms linked, stepping into our marriage as we do everything—together.
We’ve now been together 15 years, six of those married. Gabe loves Sarah’s analytical mind, how strong and confident she is, and how thoughtful she is in caring for the people she loves. Sarah loves how intelligent, passionate, and patient Gabe is. Together, we love to cook, do escape rooms, and go on ice cream dates.
Getting married was a decision we made as a couple, and we wanted to show that to everyone. So we walked down the aisle, side by side, arms linked, stepping into our marriage as we do everything—together.
We’ve now been together 15 years, six of those married. Gabe loves Sarah’s analytical mind, how strong and confident she is, and how thoughtful she is in caring for the people she loves. Sarah loves how intelligent, passionate, and patient Gabe is. Together, we love to cook, do escape rooms, and go on ice cream dates.
Our Extended Family
Both of our families live within 30 minutes of us. We get together for holidays, birthdays, celebrations, or just because. Seeing Sarah's family always involves a big meal, whether home-cooked or going out. Every summer, we spend a week at Rhode Island’s beaches with Gabe’s family, playing board games every night, eating “stuffies” (stuffed clams) by the seawall, and boogie boarding with our nephews. Our favorite family tradition is bringing everyone together for Thanksgiving at our house.
Our friends are also like family to us. Though some of them are scattered throughout the Northeast and the rest of the country now, we’re committed to staying in each other’s lives by planning trips together, hosting get-togethers, or playing games online.
Our friends are also like family to us. Though some of them are scattered throughout the Northeast and the rest of the country now, we’re committed to staying in each other’s lives by planning trips together, hosting get-togethers, or playing games online.
Our Home
We bought our three-bedroom mid-century Colonial in Rhode Island 2 years ago. Our favorite room is the sunroom, where we often spend evenings reading or gaming. It’s also the favorite spot for our tabby cat, Athena, to sunbathe and watch the birds. Otherwise, she usually follows us room to room, waiting for us to sit down so she can immediately jump in our laps. Our neighborhood is quiet with numerous parks within walking distance. We’re not far from our city’s main street, which features a community theater, restaurants, and a history museum. We’re also a short drive away from the largest cities in New England.
Our Journey to Adoption
We love to travel! Gabe is the planner: He’ll spend months mapping out train routes and building out spreadsheets and itineraries. Sarah resets expectations for what can be done in a day and reminds Gabe that an important part of vacation is finding time to relax and take it all in.
When traveling, we always try to visit art museums, something both of us love doing. We also love to learn the local history, see the landmarks, and find the spot with the best view.
Sarah's favorite trip was to Paris, because she had wanted to see the Eiffel Tower and Parisian style buildings since she was sixteen. Gabe loves the outdoors, and his favorite trip was exploring the beaches, mountains, and forests of the Pacific Northwest.
When traveling, we always try to visit art museums, something both of us love doing. We also love to learn the local history, see the landmarks, and find the spot with the best view.
Sarah's favorite trip was to Paris, because she had wanted to see the Eiffel Tower and Parisian style buildings since she was sixteen. Gabe loves the outdoors, and his favorite trip was exploring the beaches, mountains, and forests of the Pacific Northwest.
Fun Facts
About Sarah
Education
Bachelor’s
Favorite Hobby
Reading/Crafting
Favorite Sport
None - No hand eye coordination
Favorite Music Group
Sara Bareilles
Favorite TV Show
Grey's Anatomy
Favorite Subject in School
Reading
Favorite Tradition
Beach trip with the family
About Gabe
Education
PhD in English
Favorite Hobby
Crossword puzzles
Favorite Sport
Hiking
Favorite Music Group
Adele
Favorite TV Show
Master Chef
Favorite Subject in School
Art
Favorite Tradition
Hosting Thanksgiving