To a Loving Mother,

First, we want you to know how deeply we honor your strength and the love behind the decision you’re considering. We’ve learned adoption takes courage and selflessness, and while we’ll never fully understand what it’s like to carry a child, we hold deep respect for the emotions and bravery this journey demands of us both.

We’re John and Joey—loving partners who’ve always known that fatherhood through adoption is part of our path. We’re old souls at heart, raised in families that value honesty, faith, independence, and tradition. What first drew us together was our shared love for making the most of life—and we’re ready to convey that same value to a child, through unconditional love, laughter, and a life filled with meaning.

Though we can’t offer motherhood, we believe in the power of choosing the right mom—someone who sees our hearts and trusts our ability to be devoted, nurturing parents. Our own moms are our role models, and their wisdom, sense of self-respect, discipline, (and tough love!) still guides us today.

We recognize that the trust you place in your child’s adoptive parents is not to be earned lightly, and should you place that trust in us, we’ll work to ensure that that trust is well earned and respected for a lifetime. We hope to be a compassionate and respectful presence for you—honoring your wishes and celebrating your role in this child’s life.

With gratitude,
John & Joey