Dear Birthmom

Dear Expectant Mother,

I am writing this letter to express my deepest gratitude for your courage in considering me as a prospective adoptive parent for your baby. I understand that this is an incredibly difficult decision, a journey I can only imagine requires immense strength and love.
My path to adoption is simple, yet profoundly personal: a deep desire to have my own family. The dream of nurturing a child, sharing laughter and quiet moments, and building a life filled with love and support is the central hope of my life. Adoption feels like the most beautiful, meaningful way to make that dream a reality.

I am hopeful for a future where I can guide a child not just through childhood, but toward their own independent, fulfilling life. I envision a home where curiosity is encouraged, mistakes are learning opportunities, and individuality is celebrated. My greatest ambition is to provide a stable, loving foundation from which they can grow into whomever they are meant to be.

You are making a decision born of love for your child. I want to honor that love with a commitment to providing a life of unwavering support, security, and joy. Thank you for opening your heart and your mind to me during this sensitive time. My promise to you is to cherish your baby, to honor their story, and to provide a life filled with every opportunity.

With deepest respect and an open heart,
Adela

My Story

I find joy and fulfillment in activities that connect me with nature. My passions center on self-reliance, and respect for the environment. My hobbies include fishing and gardening. I find it satisfying to watch a seed grow into a thriving plant, through to harvest . These hobbies teach valuable lessons and give me balance. I have a love for the outdoors, I like to hike trails or go camping. These activities are opportunities for continuous learning and skill building. I have dedicated time to developing practical survival skills, which I find incredibly empowering. This includes learning how to responsibly identify local edible and medicinal plants—understanding the subtle difference between sustenance and danger. I am also learning passive hunting methods, such as effectively using fishing techniques or setting humane snare traps when necessary. These skills underscore my commitment to resourcefulness. I look forward to the day I can pass this respect for nature and these practical life skills to a child, sharing adventures and building a life grounded in resilience, curiosity, and a love for the wilderness.

 My Extended Family

I have a younger brother and sister who both live in Utah and are as excited as I am about this journey I am on and my efforts to build my own family. Also my cousin and his family who live in Arizona are very close to me, we are close and I talk to him and see him often. My mother is a 72 year old woman who lives in Nevada. I have a very strong and supportive network of friends just in my immediate community of neighbors who are excited for me and have proven to be helpful and resourceful in the past. When I’m spending time with my family, friends and neighbors, we might go out to eat but besides that, together we engage in activities like fishing, hiking, camping, and any time the weather is good for it, so many outdoor activities.

 My Home

I live in a duplex in Arizona. My neighborhood is inclusive, friendly and community oriented, the residents include young people and some older folks who are original home owners in this historic and mid-century neighborhood, with neighborhood watch for crime prevention. The district hosts community events every year, like the annual Street Fair, the Veterans Day parade and the parade of lights during the holidays. A big park is nearby with a fishing pond, golf courses, a swimming pool, and an amusement park. I live in a school district that is highly regarded for its strong academics, rich programs, high parent involvement and focus on whole-child development. The public library is close and has a lot of fun and stimulating programs for child development.

 My Journey to Adoption

My favorite place to find peace is the beach. Building sandcastles, swimming, searching for seashells and fishing are activities that bring me joy and a sense of calm, which I hope to pass on. A grounding yoga practice that centers my mind and my participation in most outdoor activities, which keep me active and connected to nature. One of my most memorable vacations was a trip to Washington D.C. It was an inspiring journey through national monuments and museums that instilled a deep appreciation for history and culture. These passions for nature, well-being, and learning define who I am. I look forward to sharing these values and experiences with a child, providing a nurturing home filled with stability, joy, and opportunities for shared exploration.

 Fun Facts

About Adela

  • Education
    High School
  • Favorite Hobby
    Outdoors, Art
  • Favorite Sport
    Fishing
  • Favorite Music Group
    The Beatles
  • Favorite TV Show
    The Beverly Hillbillies
  • Favorite Subject in School
    Math and Science

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