Dear Birthmom
Dear Birthmom
Dear Birth Mother,
Hello. We are Sandi and Tiffany, and we're grateful for this opportunity to be writing to you about our lives, home, family and friends. We would like to say Thank You! Thank you for being a strong, courageous woman. You choosing this path has opened the door for us to start the family we have been dreaming of. We understand that this was not an easy decision for you to make. We would like you to know that we have been excited and prepared to provide a loving home and life for a child since we had gotten married. We discussed all of the options for us, and we both came to the amazing decision of adopting, since Tiffany herself was adopted from birth as well. Seeing the love and life Tiffany was given, we knew we wanted to do the same for a child.
We want you to know that we are over the moon about becoming moms. We have already started discussing family vacations, holidays and even baking as a family. We are excited and ready for our next chapter together to begin with the pitter patter of little feet.
Hello. We are Sandi and Tiffany, and we're grateful for this opportunity to be writing to you about our lives, home, family and friends. We would like to say Thank You! Thank you for being a strong, courageous woman. You choosing this path has opened the door for us to start the family we have been dreaming of. We understand that this was not an easy decision for you to make. We would like you to know that we have been excited and prepared to provide a loving home and life for a child since we had gotten married. We discussed all of the options for us, and we both came to the amazing decision of adopting, since Tiffany herself was adopted from birth as well. Seeing the love and life Tiffany was given, we knew we wanted to do the same for a child.
We want you to know that we are over the moon about becoming moms. We have already started discussing family vacations, holidays and even baking as a family. We are excited and ready for our next chapter together to begin with the pitter patter of little feet.
Our Story
We met 20 years ago while Tiffany was going to the University of Oklahoma. Tiffany is a general manager, and Sandi is an associate with a company that will make becoming parents an easy transition. Sandi’s dream is to be a stay-at-home mom in the beginning. We are blessed to be able to do so. We love to travel and are excited to begin our travels as a family. Tiffany enjoys reading and decorating our home. Sandi enjoys building model cars and cooking/baking. Recently we have started doing paint by numbers as a couple. Tiffany studied ballet and modern dance. Sandi studied graphic design in school. We also enjoy spending time with our friends and family. We have game night once a week with Tiffany’s sister. We are also a couple who love to host parties for birthdays, holidays, or even just to gather together for fun.
Our Extended Family
We both come from very loving families, which is why family is so important to us both. Sandi was born in Oklahoma and is the youngest of three with two amazing parents. Sandi has two in-law siblings and two nephews and one niece. She also has 13 cousins, four aunts and uncles, and one grandparent who is still living. Christmas is Sandi’s favorite memory growing up, always with a big family gathering. Now that they’ve all grown up, we do Christmas with our immediate family. We have a big dinner and a gift exchange then play games, laugh, and just have a fun time with family.
Tiffany was born in Texas and is the oldest of her and her sister, with two amazing parents. Tiffany comes from a large family. She and her family loved to travel all over. On Friday nights, Tiffany and her family would have pizza picnic night. They would order from their favorite pizza place and watch movies while having their pizza on the living room floor. Tiffany has 16 cousins. These past few years have been hard on our family. In 2018 we lost Tiffany’s dad to cancer, and in 2022 we lost her mom to pneumonia. Both of them were excited to become grandparents, so we will make sure our child knows all about them.
Tiffany was born in Texas and is the oldest of her and her sister, with two amazing parents. Tiffany comes from a large family. She and her family loved to travel all over. On Friday nights, Tiffany and her family would have pizza picnic night. They would order from their favorite pizza place and watch movies while having their pizza on the living room floor. Tiffany has 16 cousins. These past few years have been hard on our family. In 2018 we lost Tiffany’s dad to cancer, and in 2022 we lost her mom to pneumonia. Both of them were excited to become grandparents, so we will make sure our child knows all about them.
Our Home
We live in a beautiful, quiet neighborhood in Texas. It’s a beautiful home with four bedrooms, three bathrooms, a game room, and a gorgeous backyard with a pool. We share our home with two cute fur babies. We have a shih-tzu named Smokey and a micro-Frenchie named Bandit. Both are very loving and cuddly. When we were searching for our forever home, one of the most important items on our wish list was an area with great schools. Luckily, our home is just a few blocks from an elementary school, so we are excited we can walk our little to school when that time comes. We couldn’t have been more lucky to find such an amazing neighborhood and such loving neighbors.
Our Journey to Adoption
We discussed all avenues to take for starting our family. We have friends who went the IVF route, but in the end, adoption was the path that was meant for us. Tiffany and her younger sister were both adopted at birth and were given an amazing life so we want to have the same opportunity to give a beautiful baby the opportunities Tiffany was given. We have taken our time to make sure our home and life are ready for us to bring a child into before starting this process. Now that we have made a home that is full of love, we are ready and excited to welcome in the newest member of our family.
Fun Facts
About Tiffany
Education
Bachelor’s in fine arts
Favorite Hobby
Reading
Favorite Sport
Soccer
Favorite Music Group
Frank Sinatra, jazz, classic rock
Favorite TV Show
Friends
Favorite Subject in School
English, dance, history
Favorite Tradition
Pizza picnic night
About Sandi
Education
Associate degree
Favorite Hobby
Model cars
Favorite Sport
College football, volleyball
Favorite Music Group
Billie Eilish, Fleetwood Mac
Favorite TV Show
The Big Bang Theory
Favorite Subject in School
Art, history
Favorite Tradition
Family game night